Flower Girls! |
I can’t even think how to describe
the year 2014 and what it meant for the Luippold Family. After over a year of hoping to adopt from
first Russia and then Kazakhstan, we switched to a Ukraine Adoption Program in
March and by July we were on a plane to Eastern Europe! The first 6 months of the year are such a
whirlwind. I took time off working to focus on the adoption and our family.
However, somehow the time seemed to fill up more than ever! The mountain of never ending adoption
paperwork contributed to our busyness, as well as traveling to Virginia for
Bard and the girls to be in his sister’s wedding, the girls and I dancing in a
recital, and starting the summer off with theatre camp and swim lessons.
Meeting Max! |
Then, Monday July 7th I
woke up and checked my email at 5am. And
promptly burst in to tears. Our adoption
dossier had been accepted by the Ukrainian government and they had given us an
interview date for July 17th, ten days away. In fact, we were flying out July 14th-in
one week. I promptly stopped crying-Bard
and I had way too much work to do!
Somehow we packed up our house, the girls, and everything but the
kitchen sink and boarded a plane to Kyiv, the capitol city of Ukraine. There were lots of bumps, prayers, chocolate
eating, and subway riding over the next 6 weeks. But the most important moments were
breathtaking and heart stopping. Sitting
in a tiny government office and seeing the picture of our son for the first time. Waiting in a toy filled visitation room at a
rural orphanage while the Director went and woke him from his nap. Holding him for the first time and playing
with him, as a family, during our daily orphanage visits. Sitting in court and
hearing the judge grant our petition to adopt him. And, after 6 weeks and 3 days of living in
Ukraine-a memorable and absolutely incredible experience-boarding a plane to
come home. Together.
Exploring Kyiv |
Introducing
Maxim Everett Bard Luippold, better known as Max, now and forever-part of our
family!
Celebrating Ukrainian Independence |
We returned
home on August 28th, three days later Bard went back to work and the
girls started piano lessons. The next
day they started school-first grade for Evelyn and preschool for Cecilia. And the following week I returned to teaching
dance and the girls started ballet and tap classes while Max started swim
classes and a million doctor appointments.
We don’t do anything half way around here J
Overall the adjustment is going fairly well-for all of us. There have been quite a few (million) moments
of stress, exhaustion, frustration, and sadness. But when I think back to where we were last
year, and what a miracle it is that our lives changed so drastically in such a
short period of time, it honestly shocks me.
Max has overcome a lot in just the three short months that we have been
home-and he has a lot more in front of him.
Overall his health is good but he is delayed and very small for his age
so we do therapy and feed him every other minute! He has been checked and tested for a variety
of issues and that will continue as we monitor his growth and health. Next year will be informative and scary as he
will likely need surgery for a congenital heart defect. And while it is easy to
be fearful of such a big procedure, when I think of the prayers, support, and
blessings that carried us through this year and allowed us to see the power of
redemption played out in our personal lives, I have peace.
First Family Christmas Tree! |
And that, dear friends and family, is
what we wish you this holiday season and for the year 2015. May you see Love in your lives, like never
before. May you have prayers answered
and feel the breath of God all around you. And may you strive for something
that is bigger than yourself and watch in humble joy as your dreams come true.
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